The Tragedy
A man faces many incidents throughout his life. Some
incidents become more important which leave great effect on human beings and we
have to change our life style. Such big incidents are known as tragedies.
Different people face different type of tragedies. But one tragedy is common to
all. That is marriage. I would say that this is the biggest tragedy in human
life. Those who want to get the real experience of conjugal life cannot escape
from this well known tragedy. But few are wise enough who get the experience of
conjugal life, not by getting married but by getting knowledge throw books.
Books are like wives for those are bachelor, and tell us the true experience of
conjugal life. Thus some people are spiritually married with books.
Bachelors do not marry because
either they don’t want to lose their freedom or they don’t have that much of
courage to face the tragedy. Actually spouse teaches us the manners and mode of
life. Hence marriage is a burden for those who have already known the manners
and mode of life. So learn the manners of life if you want to avoid the best
possible tragedy. Then you can know the secret of this mysterious world keeping
yourself bachelor.
Although some live happy
married life while others suffer a lot from sorrow and have to struggle to
survive. They are lucky enough who live peacefully because they know the importance
of their precious lives. On the other hand some are unlucky who find themselves
among conflicts because of mismatched. Then tragedy starts to play its real
role, and it continues till dooms day.
To
whom can you blame for this tragedy? It is impossible to say that either
parents or the couples are responsible for the tragedy. But I say that couples
are more responsible than parents, because they marry without thinking that
they both are of the same nature or of different nature. This is the mistake we
do at the crucial stage. Parents have to fulfill their duties before they die,
and couples have to suffer the tragedy. This is the secret of this human life.
We don’t know that we would get this human life again or not but we are so
puzzled by the tragedy that we can’t come out of the troubles and long for
death. Thus death ends the tragedy.
Nevertheless I wish to all to nullify
the effect of above written words, and have a happy conjugal life ahead.
Date: 28/11/2013
Applicant,
Gurmender
Singh
